If folks want to know I mean I got a Whole lot more suggestions on my website There's this impactful empathy book Empathy yeah people can download that For free and there's all kinds of things To say and not to say like one of the Worst things that people said to me was God needed another Angel and so Tom had To go up and be that other Angel no I Wanted the angel right here with me or One guy one guy said to me This was a couple months after Tom died I said Kathleen don't don't Worry too much Um You're still young and you're attractive You'll find another man to marry What not to say yes
