I don't actually I don't necessarily Think it's a bad thing that some people Once they find out the meaning of what Marriage means for your finances that They think twice about it sure in Today's day and age we think about Marriage as mainly uh a a romantic Relationship a romantic kind of you know Joining together of our lives and Creating a family but as I like to say You know marriage is the most important Financial contract that you'll ever sign In your life it is most people haven't Read it